Choosing the right wedding tie or bow tie is one of those details that can neatly bring the whole look together.
It may be a small piece of fabric, but it sits front and centre in the photographs. It connects the suit to the flowers, the bridesmaid dresses, the setting, the season and the overall feel of the day. For summer weddings in particular, the right neckwear can add colour, texture and character without feeling too heavy or overdone.
Whether you are the groom, dressing a full party of groomsmen, choosing something special for the father of the bride, or attending as a guest, we hope this guide will help you choose a tie or bow tie that feels considered, comfortable and beautifully suited to the tone of your day.
At Belfast Bow Company, every tie, bow tie, pocket square and pair of cufflinks is handmade in our workshop in Dromore, Co. Down, using quality fabrics with heritage, texture and meaning: Irish linen, Liberty of London cotton prints, tweed, velvet and other carefully chosen cloths. No shiny synthetics. No throwaway details. Just well-made accessories for people who care about the small things.
What Colour Tie Should I Wear to a Summer Wedding?
For summer weddings, softer, lighter and more natural tones often work beautifully. Think sage green, pale blue, soft pink, warm neutrals, dusty rose and gentle floral prints. These colours always sit well with summer light, outdoor venues, linen suits, navy tailoring and softer wedding palettes.
That does not mean summer wedding ties need to be pale or predictable; we find that our rich emerald green ties, botanical Liberty print bow ties and dark navy Irish linen ties are just as popular at this time of year, especially if the wedding has a more countryside, formal or timeless feel.
A good rule is to choose a colour that works with the wedding rather than trying to match every detail exactly. We would suggest that your tie should belong to the overall palette, not compete with it.
Should the Groom’s Tie Match the Groomsmen?
This is a question we are frequently asked and we always say the same thing. The groom’s tie certainly can match the groomsmen, but it does not have to.
Some couples prefer a very cohesive look, with the groom and groomsmen all wearing the same tie or bow tie. This works especially well for classic weddings, black tie weddings or formal bridal party photographs.
Other couples prefer the groom to stand apart slightly. Our couples have found subtle ways to achieve this; the groom might wear a self-tie bow tie while the groomsmen wear pre-tied bow ties, or he might wear the same colour in a different texture. He could wear a patterned Liberty tie while the groomsmen wear a plain Irish linen tie in a coordinating shade. He might also wear a matching pocket square or cufflinks to give his outfit a little more definition.
The key is not to make the groom look separate from the group, but to give him a little extra distinction.
Should Wedding Ties Match Bridesmaid Dresses?
Again, they can, but they do not need to match exactly.
In fact, a slight variation often looks more natural and more elegant. If your bridesmaids are wearing sage green, for example, the groomsmen do not necessarily need to wear the exact same shade of sage. A darker green, a soft neutral, a floral print with green running through it, or an Irish linen tie in a complementary tone can feel more considered.
Naturally, we think exact matching can sometimes look a little flat, especially in photographs. A small difference in texture or tone gives depth to the overall look.
This is where fabric choice matters. Irish linen, Liberty Tana Lawn cotton and tweed all catch the light differently. A handmade Irish linen tie will not look the same as a synthetic satin tie, even if the colour name sounds similar. The texture gives it softness and character.
If you are trying to match a wedding palette, bridesmaid dress or suit fabric, our swatch service is the best place to start.
Tie or Bow Tie for a Summer Wedding?
It goes without saying, we think both work beautifully. It really depends on the feel of the wedding and the personality of the wearer.
A tie is classic, elegant and easy to wear. It works well for grooms, groomsmen, fathers and guests, and it suits most wedding dress codes. A handmade linen tie is especially good for summer because it feels refined without looking too formal or heavy.
A bow tie has a little more character. It can feel traditional, playful, formal or sharply dressed depending on the fabric. A self-tie bow tie is a lovely choice for a groom who wants something timeless and personal, while a pre-tied bow tie can be a practical option for groomsmen who want a consistent look with less fuss on the morning of the wedding.
For black tie or evening weddings, a bow tie is the natural choice. For garden weddings, country house weddings or relaxed summer celebrations, either can work. It is entirely up to you & what feels right for your occasion.
For the Groom
We have worked with a lot of grooms over the years and we can confidently say, that to strike the note, the tie or bow tie should feel like part of the outfit, not an afterthought.
If you are wearing a navy, charcoal, stone or linen suit, a handmade tie in Irish linen is a beautiful place to begin. Green, blue and deeper earthy tones all work particularly well for summer weddings.
If you want something with more personality, a Liberty of London floral tie or bow tie can bring colour and pattern without feeling loud. Botanical prints are especially well suited to summer weddings because they echo flowers, gardens and the natural setting of the day.
For a more formal look, a self-tie bow tie gives the groom a traditional, finished feel. It does take a little practice, but the result has a character that a perfectly pre-formed bow simply cannot quite replicate.
Good choices for the groom include:
- A handmade Irish linen tie in the main wedding colour
- A Liberty floral tie with colours drawn from the flowers or bridesmaid dresses
- A self-tie bow tie for a traditional or black tie look
- A matching pocket square for a neat finish
- Cufflinks made from the same fabric for a subtle, personal detail
For Groomsmen
Groomsmen’s ties should make the whole party look cohesive without making everyone look overly matched.
If you are dressing several groomsmen, we recommend choosing one clear direction: same fabric and same colour, same colour family in slightly different shades, or a mix of plain and patterned pieces that all sit within the same palette.
Plain Irish linen ties work especially well for groomsmen because they are timeless, easy to style and available in colours that suit a wide range of wedding themes. They also photograph beautifully because the texture is soft rather than shiny.
For a more relaxed or individual look, you could dress the groom in a patterned tie and the groomsmen in plain linen ties that pick up one of the colours from the print. This keeps the party connected while allowing the groom to stand out.
If you are unsure about colour, order swatches before committing to the full set. It is much easier to choose the right shade when you can see the fabric beside suits, dresses, flowers and stationery.
For the Father of the Bride or Father of the Groom
The father of the bride or father of the groom does not need to match the groomsmen exactly. In many cases, it looks better if he complements them instead.
A father’s tie should feel smart, understated and appropriate to the formality of the day. He is an important part of the wedding party, but he does not need to look identical to the groomsmen.
A navy, soft blue, sage, burgundy or deep green tie can work beautifully, depending on the wedding colours and suit. A pocket square is also a lovely finishing touch, especially if he does not usually wear one. It adds finesse without feeling overdone.
For fathers who prefer something classic, a plain Irish linen tie is a safe and elegant choice. For those who enjoy a little more detail, a tartan tie or bow tie can bring personality while still feeling refined.
For Wedding Guests
As a wedding guest, your tie or bow tie is a chance to dress well without trying to look like part of the wedding party.
We usually encourage guests to be a little more expressive, particularly at summer weddings. A floral bow tie, a Liberty print tie, a linen pocket square or a rich coloured tie can all add interest to a suit you already own.
If the invitation gives a dress code, manners dictate that you follow it. If it gives a colour palette, take inspiration from it without matching the wedding party too closely. For a summer guest outfit, navy tailoring with a floral bow tie or an Irish linen tie is a reliable choice. A white Irish linen pocket square also works with almost everything and gives a simple jacket a more finished look.
Summer Wedding Colour Ideas
Green Wedding Ties
Green continues to be one of the most versatile wedding colours. Sage green feels soft and natural for summer, while emerald and ivy green bring depth and richness. Green ties work beautifully with navy, grey, stone and tweed suits, and they pair well with garden flowers, foliage and outdoor settings.
Blue and Navy Wedding Ties
Blue is a classic choice for weddings because it works with almost every suit colour. Pale blue feels light and summery, while navy gives a more formal and timeless finish. Navy ties are particularly useful if you want something elegant that will not date.
Pink, Blush and Rose Wedding Ties
Soft pink, blush and dusty rose are beautiful for summer weddings. They work especially well with navy, grey, beige and light stone suits. Pink does not need to feel overly sweet; in the right fabric and print, it can look very refined.
Floral Wedding Ties and Bow Ties
Floral ties are a lovely way to bring the season into the outfit. A Liberty of London print can pick up colours from the flowers, bridesmaid dresses or stationery without needing to match everything exactly.
Floral bow ties are particularly good for guests, page boys, summer garden weddings and grooms who want something with a little more charm.
Black Tie and Evening Weddings
For a formal summer wedding, a black bow tie is still the classic choice. A self-tie black bow tie is traditional and elegant, while a pre-tied black bow tie offers ease and consistency.
If the invitation says black tie, wear a bow tie rather than a regular tie. A white pocket square is the ideal finishing touch.
Do I Need a Pocket Square?
You do not need one, but it can make a big difference.
A pocket square adds balance to the outfit, especially if you are wearing a tie or bow tie. It gives the jacket a finished look and helps connect the colours across the outfit.
The pocket square does not need to match the tie exactly. In fact, it is often better if it complements it. A white Irish linen pocket square is the most versatile option and works with almost every wedding outfit. For a more coordinated look, choose a pocket square that picks up one colour from the tie, bow tie or wedding palette.
When Should We Order Wedding Ties?
If you are ordering for a wedding party, it is best to start early.
Allow time to choose swatches, compare fabrics with suits and dresses, confirm quantities and have everything made. This is especially important if you need several groomsmen’s ties, matching bow ties, pocket squares or cufflinks.
Because our pieces are handmade, planning ahead gives you the best choice and avoids last-minute stress. That said, we do occasionally cater for what we affectionately call “bow tie emergencies”. We never like to see a groom stuck, so please get in touch and we will always do our best to help.
Can We Order Swatches?
Yes. If colour matters, swatches are the best place to start.
We are a predominantly online business and we understand that screens can make colours look slightly different, and wedding colours often need to be seen in real light beside dresses, suits, flowers and stationery. A fabric swatch lets you compare tones properly before ordering the finished pieces.
For couples planning groomsmen’s ties or trying to coordinate with bridesmaid dresses, swatches are one of the simplest ways to make a confident decision.
The Belfast Bow Company Summer Wedding Edit
For summer weddings, we always come back to the same idea: choose pieces that feel considered, well made and true to the day.
A wedding tie or bow tie should not feel like a rushed add-on. It should sit comfortably with the suit, the setting, the colour palette and the person wearing it. Whether you choose soft Irish linen, a botanical Liberty print, a traditional self-tie bow tie or a simple white pocket square, the right accessory can quietly bring everything together.
Explore our summer wedding collections:
- Irish Linen Wedding Ties
- Liberty of London Wedding Ties
- Self-Tie Bow Ties
- Pre-Tied Bow Ties
- Wedding Pocket Squares
- Handmade Cufflinks
- Free Fabric Swatches
- How to Tie a Self-Tie Bow Tie
Every piece is handmade in our workshop in Dromore, Co. Down, using fabrics chosen for their quality, texture and story. Made thoughtfully, made by our hands and made for the moments that matter.
Frequently Asked Questions About Summer Wedding Ties
What colour tie is best for a summer wedding?
Soft blues, sage green, blush pink, navy and floral prints all work beautifully for summer weddings. The best colour depends on the suit, wedding palette, venue and level of formality.
Should the groom wear the same tie as the groomsmen?
He can, but he does not have to. Many grooms choose a slightly different tie, bow tie or pocket square so they still feel connected to the wedding party but stand apart a little.
Should groomsmen’s ties match bridesmaid dresses?
They do not need to match exactly. It is often better to choose a coordinating tone, complementary colour or fabric that works with the bridesmaid dresses rather than trying to match shade for shade. Remember, there will be suits, shirts, flowers and plenty of daylight between the men’s ties and the bridesmaids’ dresses.
Should the father of the bride match the groomsmen?
The father of the bride can coordinate with the groomsmen, but he does not need to match them exactly. A complementary tie or pocket square often looks more natural and gives him his own place within the wedding party.
Are bow ties suitable for summer weddings?
Yes. Bow ties work very well for summer weddings, especially in cotton, linen or floral prints. A bow tie can feel formal, playful or traditional depending on the fabric and style.
Is a self-tie bow tie better than a pre-tied bow tie?
A self-tie bow tie has a more traditional, characterful finish and is a lovely choice for the groom. A pre-tied bow tie is easier to wear and can be useful for groomsmen or guests who want a consistent look without needing to tie it themselves. If you would like to learn how to tie your own self-tie bow tie, we have a handy video tutorial to guide you through it.
Do wedding ties and pocket squares need to match?
No. Ideally, they should coordinate rather than match exactly. A pocket square can pick up one colour from the tie or simply add a clean finishing touch, such as a white Irish linen pocket square.
How early should we order groomsmen’s ties?
It is best to order as early as possible, especially if you need several matching ties, bow ties, pocket squares or cufflinks. Ordering swatches first will help you choose the right colour with confidence. That said, we are a family business and can often turn things around pretty quickly, so please do get in touch with your “bow tie emergencies” and we will always do our very best to help.
